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What is Sextortion?
Let's talk about sextortion real quick—it's scary but knowing the basics can keep you safer.
Sextortion happens when someone tricks you into sharing nude or sexual photos/videos (or even just intimate stuff), then threatens to share them publicly unless you pay money, send more pics, or do what they want. It's a form of blackmail, and it’s on the rise online, especially targeting teens and young people.
How Does it Happen?
Online extortionists are sneaky. They often start by pretending to be a friend, crush, or someone your age on social media, gaming apps, or dating sites. They build trust, flirt, and encourage you to send private stuff (“It’s just between us,” “I’ll delete it,” etc.). Once they have the material, the mask drops—they threaten to send it to your family, friends, or post it online. They might say things like “Pay up or everyone sees this” or “Send more or I’ll ruin your life.” The goal is to make you feel ashamed, scared, and trapped so you keep complying.
The Important Truth:
It’s not your fault and you don't have to face this alone. The extortionists are pros at manipulation. Deleting the pics doesn’t always stop them (they often have backups), and paying or sending more almost never ends it—it usually makes things worse. The shame and fear can make you want to hide it, but that’s exactly what they count on. Tell a parent, trusted adult, teacher, or counselor right away. They can help you report it (to platforms, police, or organizations like the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children), block the , and protect you.
Every expert agrees reaching out early stops the situation from spiraling.
You’re not alone in this—help is out there, and adults who care about you want to support you, no judgment. If it’s happening (or even if you’re worried it might), speak up today. Stay safe out there.
1 in 5 Teens Reported Experiencing Sextortion
According to Thorn Research (thorn.org)
Rise of Sextortion
What used to be a smaller, niche problem has turned into one of the fastest-growing online threats, especially targeting teens (mostly boys aged 14-17 for the financial kind).
According to the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children (NCMEC), reports of online enticement (which includes sextortion) exploded in 2025—hitting about 1.4 million for the year, a massive 156% jump from 2024. Financial sextortion specifically saw big increases too, like jumping roughly 70% in the first half of 2025 compared to the year before. The FBI has been sounding the alarm about this “explosion” since around 2022-2023, and the trend keeps climbing.
Why is this happening now?
A few big factors are fueling it:
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Social media and apps everywhere: Platforms like Instagram, Snapchat, gaming sites, and messaging apps make it super easy for predators to connect with kids 24/7. They pretend to be peers, build quick trust, and push for explicit pics. Once they have them, the blackmail starts. These tools turned connection into a hunting ground.
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AI and deepfakes changing the game: This is a huge new driver. Criminals use generative AI to create fake explicit images or videos from innocent photos pulled from social media. They don’t even always need real nudes anymore—it lowers the barrier and makes scams more convincing and scalable. AI-generated exploitation reports to NCMEC skyrocketed from around 6,800 in 2024 to over 440,000 in 2025. AI also helps them make realistic fake profiles and scripts.
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Organized crime getting involved: A lot of these schemes (especially financial ones demanding money or gift cards) come from organized groups. They treat it like a business—sharing playbooks online, using teams, and going after thousands of victims at once for profit.
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More reporting + more screen time: The numbers are partly higher because laws like the REPORT Act (2024) require more companies to flag and report stuff to NCMEC. But it’s not just paperwork—kids are online more than ever, sharing personal stuff, which gives the exploiters more entry points. Data breaches also hand over personal info that makes attacks more targeted.
The scary and alarming impact is many of these cases have led tragically to suicide, huge emotional trauma, and victims feeling trapped. But the good news is awareness is growing, and authorities are cracking down harder.
Staying vigilant, using privacy settings, and talking openly with trusted adults is more important than ever. If something feels off, don’t wait—reach out for help right away.
Survivor Advice
Immediate Action Steps: (From NCMEC)
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Stop communicating: Do not send money or more images. Paying rarely stops the blackmailer.
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Do not delete: Take screenshots of the messages, profile, and payment demands, but do not delete your account. This evidence is vital for law enforcement.
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Block and Report: Use the social media platform’s safety features to block the user and report the account.
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Report to NCMEC: File a report with the NCMEC CyberTipline.
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Use "Take It Down": Visit TakeItDown.ncmec.org to get help removing explicit images from the internet.
If you're going through sextortion right now, it is not your fault. None of it.
You are not alone and real help is available right now.
You don’t have to carry this by yourself.
Support Resources:
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Get Help Support: Email gethelp@ncmec.org or call 1-800-THE-LOST (1-800-843-5678) for specialized assistance.
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Crisis Text Line: Text "THORN" to 741741 to connect with a trained counselor anonymously.
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Team HOPE: NCMEC provides peer support from people with similar experiences.
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Legal Aid: NCMEC can help victims find attorneys to seek legal action against offenders.
